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FASTER IS NOT BETTER. ❤️ . We live in the age

FASTER IS NOT BETTER. ❤️
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We live in the age of convenience. We are used to getting things fast. (Half day amazon delivery anyone?!! 🤪) Anything longer than right-fucking-now seems a waste of time or not worth it. This is why so many people resist doing the work on themselves, on their relationships, even on their love lives. It feels to take forever…and we don’t want that.
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We want to be healed NOW.
We want deeper orgasms NOW.
We want perfect partner NOW.
We want perfect relationship NOW.
We want an open heart NOW.
We want a healed pussy NOW.
We want
We want
We want…
✨INSTANT GRATIFICATION✨
Thats why vibrators/porn are addictive
Thats why casual sex seems easier than long-term relationships.
That’s why its easier to break up these days than work it out.
Thats why we no longer court each other. We jump into bed.
Thats why alcohol, chocolate & cigarettes are often our first choice to feel better.
That’s why an Insta quote is easier than a book.
That’s why we “learn” from reels these days.
Thats why faking is easier than being vulnerable.
That’s why we settle for sexual attention instead of sexual commitment.
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The age of convenience is fucking us over.
It is making us impatient, entitled, lazy and deeply unsatisfied.
We don’t trust the work.
We don’t trust the healing.
We don’t trust our body.
We dont trust the TIME it takes.
We are impatient with the process and we blame ourselves or the process. Heck we even blame the therapists/courses which dont offer us INSTANT RELIEF aka instant gratification.
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Today, I want you to become aware of all the times you are impatient in your love life. JUST PAY ATTENTION FOR NOW. Where do you rush? In your healing? In pleasure? In dating? In bed?
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You wont get further or better results by rushing. Take a deep breath, kitten. Sometimes the best things in life take time. ❤️

What many don’t realize is that sexual healing d

What many don’t realize is that sexual healing does not always involve sexual-related healing practices.
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The psychosomatic therapies below have positively impacted my love life the most, as well as the sexualhealing of my friends & clients. These therapeutic practices incorporate holistic healing of body + mind + heart. The triple whammy! 🌈💥⭐️☀️🔥☂️💋✨
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⭐️TRE (Trauma Release Exercises)
⭐️Body de-armouring bodywork
⭐️YONI MASSAGE (what I do)
⭐️HOLOTROPIC BREATHWORK
⭐️AYAHUASCA & San Pedro plant ceremony
⭐️Vipassana meditation 10 day course
⭐️Deep Fascia release bodywork
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Google “TRE London College” run by @stevehaines66. I took his online weekend training Module 1 & have been incorporating TRE in my daily life since then. Mind blowing & easy! Takes 10 min a day.
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Im trained in both body de-armouring & yoni massage. Both are incredible modalities to release trauma from the body. Although I offer primarily yoni massage sessions, I incorporate light body de-armouring for deeper release. (I have tips on my blog how to find best yoni therapist).
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Both ayahuasca & san pedro plant ceremonies have been life changing for me. (Like 10 years of therapy in one session!) I have a trusted certified person in the Netherlands who runs PRIVATE ceremonies & deep post-integration sessions. DM for contact ONLY if you are serious to do it. Don’t spam me please. 🙏🏻
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Although Vipassana is a ten day meditation course, it is a deeply bodily release for many. There are centers all over the world. The course attendance is donation-based so anyone can afford it. I did mine in Thailand 2 years ago. Plan to go back!
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Fascia release bodywork is deep tissue massage. Great for shaking loose the stress from the body. My trusted practitioner in Amsterdam is Larry @fsaamsterdam.
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✨✨✨What I know for sure - pick qualified experienced practitioners to guide you. Sometimes the best ones, who do the work from the heart, have the least followers on insta or don’t exist on social media at all. And you you get what you pay for. Cheaper is not better. 🙃
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Which healing psychosomatic practices have been most life changing for you?
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This is one of the biggest obstacles for many wome

This is one of the biggest obstacles for many women that I work with - the fear to be truthful with their partners. 😬 We enter relationships under a wrong assumption that loving someone means always saying only good-feeling things to them and only feeling good around a loved one. However real love pushes us into self development and healing - and these things require our awareness about our deep wounds and personal struggles. This means that sometimes your job as a LOVING partner is to speak the truths which may temporarily hurt/annoy/frustrate your partner. Sometimes, this is the most loving thing to do. Always sugarcoating your experience or faking your feelings will only lead to emotional isolation and resentment. 💔
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The woman’s willingness to go into these uncomfortable conversations with her partner determines the development of her love life. Conflict, when approached with the mutual intention of love, is wonderful. It pushes the lovers to work together as a team, to negotiate and to get creative. ❤️
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Sharing truthfully may lead to a fight or two. However faking pleasure for the rest of your relationship may lead to a break up….choose wisely. You got this. ❤️❤️❤️

Feeling of connection is the true nourishment of s

Feeling of connection is the true nourishment of sexx. Its never orgasms. If orgasm uwas the answer, we’d all stop dating & sit around jerking it and feeling fulfilled. Yet humans are yearning to date & meet somebody. Even after numerous failed relationships & betrayals we still wanna get back on the horse.
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Why??!?! ✨CONNECTION✨
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Humans yearn to see & feel seen. To love & be loved. To give & receive. In the bedroom, anything else is just a substitute. (Ever wonder why online sexchatrooms & cam girls are so popular? They provide an illusion of connection).
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Connection is what gifts you that multi-day afterglow. Its the feeling of reciprocity of feelings. The feeling that your partner is truly present with you in bed 👉🏻 That they are there with YOU. Not with your body. Not with your genitals. Not your boobs. Not with their sexfantasies.
❤️With YOU. Just as you are. ❤️
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THAT feeling is what I call safety in the bedroom. THAT is connection. (THAT feeling is also what leads to relaxation & deeper pleasure 🤪).
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👉🏻If you crave a nourishing love life, seek connection with a lover, not orgasms.
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Share if you agree. And if you don’t agree, then Im excited about your future. Cause once you’ll feel it, you’ll KNOW. 🔥🌈☀️⭐️☂️🌞💥
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📸 by @libkos ✨

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