Open Wide: 500 Revealing Questions for Lovers to Deepen Sexual Desire (eBook)


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Open Wide: 500 Revealing Questions for Lovers to Deepen Sexual Desire (eBook)

If you’re being sexual with someone right now, YOU NEED THIS GUIDE!

You might think you need loads of sexual experience, fancy gizmos, or expert-level communication skills to fuel sexual desire…

As a female libido specialist, I’m here to tell you: NO, YOU DON’T.

Sexual desire is as simple as knowing and sharing the truth.

It all begins with asking the right questions… LEARN MORE


You will receive this e-book immediately upon purchase.

More About the Sexual Desire Guide:

Great lovers aren’t born. They are made.

Download this 87-page e-book, and you’ll get:

  • 500 questions designed to stimulate open, honest sharing about sex and desire
  • 20+ tips for having fruitful, liberating, even steamy conversations about sex
  • The secret ingredient to epic sex that nobody talks about!
  • An extensive breakdown of novelty sex, sexual boredom, and long-term sexual desire
  • An expert-curated list of the best books on communication and the best online sexuality courses

Who is this e-book for?

  • Lovers of all genders, ages and backgrounds
  • People in any kind of relationship—newly dating, friends with benefits, committed long-term, engaged, married, monogamous, polyamorous
  • Lovers who want to talk about sex, but feel shy or inhibited from speaking freely, worry they’ll have very little talk to about—or simply don’t know where to start
  • Everyone who’s ever had thoughts like: Where did my libido go? Why don’t I get horny for my lover anymore? What would make me horny? How can I be the best lover for my partner?
  • Anyone who is committed to creating a nourishing, fulfilling sex life— for yourself and with your lover

Hi, my name is Elena Rossi.

I’ve written OPEN WIDE: 500 Questions for Lovers to Deepen Sexual Desire to help you:

  • Reveal your unmet needs and sexual desires to your lover/s
  • Sustain a long-term healthy, pleasure-filled sex life
  • Build a stronger sexual and sensual bond
  • Leave sexual boredom and dull, stagnant sex in the past!
  • Explore your pleasure potential

OPEN WIDE banishes one-word answers to lazy questions like “Does this feel good?” or “What do you like?”

Instead, you’ll discover:

  • What is the purpose of sex in your life?
  • What kind of sex would make you want to stay in bed all day?
  • What are the deepest wounds from your past which could be affecting your sex life?
  • How do you know if someone is sexually compatible with you?
  • What could be some early warning signs that your sexual relationship is in trouble?

OPEN WIDE opens up yourself and your relationship to:

  • Long-term sexual satisfaction and excitement
  • Toe-curling pleasure and orgasms
  • Deeper (or even rekindled) love
  • Playfulness, romance and lightheartedness 
  • Clarity on sexual compatibility
  • Understanding of turn-ons & boundaries—yours and your partner’s

You absolutely deserve all of this and more!

All you have to do is OPEN WIDE.

I’m so excited to support you on this journey!

With love,

Elena Rossi

You will receive this e-book immediately upon purchase.

Written & Created by

Elena Rossi

A female libido specialist, writer, speaker, pelvic trauma-release specialist and sex toy designer, helping you discover peace between the sheets.

The Reviews

16 reviews for Open Wide: 500 Revealing Questions for Lovers to Deepen Sexual Desire (eBook)
  1. Catherine

    I’ve been using this guide with my partner for around 2 months and can absolutely recommend it for anyone interested in building intimacy and connection.. either with a lover, a friend or a date.

    If you’re someone that absolutely loves asking your partner deeper questions, and regularly asks your partner, “Tell me about the first time you saw me, or the first time we met??” over and over again, you will love diving deep with 500 extremely thoughtful questions.

    The answers can be as simple or complex as you care to divulge or discuss. Over dinner or a date, we usually try to answer around three questions…by the end the conversation is flowing so freely as you explore tangents within tangents, and without really realising it you can really explore your values and outlook on life together.

  2. Elena (verified owner)

    If you want to experience deep, meaningful connection with your partner, grow a pair and open up and show up as honestly as you can. This book will equip you how to. So much gold. Worth every penny, minute and drop of sweat from being vulnerable. Grateful!

  3. Joyce (verified owner)

    This is a must-have item, whether you re single and up for self discovery, dating and searching for some deeper questions to ask your potential lover, in a short term relationship just getting to know eachother or in a long term relationship wanting to spice things up or deepen your knowledge about each others needs. I recommend this guide to all my friends. So, here I am recommending it to you.

    The ’look and feel’ of this quide is wonderful and it’s easy to navigate. You can use it on your phone or iPad for easy bed side reading . As a couple- we usually play a little game with it. One of us randomly picks a number and the other asks the corresponding question, depending on which number we pick the night will become either healing and deepening for our relationship or hot and steamy . There are 500 DIFFERENT questions, so if you go for about 10 a night you’ll have 50 nights of fun and deep conversation!

    I’ve also used this guide on a girlsnight with friends, which was a great conversation piece. We got into some pretty deep and heavy stuff, but also laughed our butts off!

    If you are looking for a HUGE pack of questions to spark any conservation about sexuality, desire, needs etc you HAVE TO BUY this guide! Call it a gift to yourself, because it most certainly is.

    The pricepoint is fair, so I would say skip tonight’s ‘date night’ to visit the cinema and watch a movie that isn’t even that good and go for this guide. Play during dinner with each other and I guarantee you will have a night to remember.

    Thank you Elena for creating this gem!

  4. Skye (verified owner)

    OMG, I did this with my new man of 9months the questions are incredible, my other gf and her partner came over and we went around the circle! Love love love

  5. Tom (verified owner)

    Wonderful. Such a thoughtful toolkit for helping to break through invisible walls, both individually and together.

  6. Nadine (verified owner)

    It’ll be worth to be a printed version…as soon as possible. Made it as a little Book for myself and it is a little treasure of love and understanding and compliance and trust, sexuality and so much more….intense questions…really love the work and the whole planet ‘Yoni Empire’….the planet pleasure….go! Visit yourself…

  7. Krystal (verified owner)

    I have had an on and off lover of 13 years and we literally only asked 2 questions of each other so far and it was soooo illuminating! So connective, so revealing, so intriguing. I learned things I never knew about them and the questions also gave me a direct opening to be open and direct about my experiences in bed with them. It really opened up the channels for honesty and authenticity. It was beautiful. I messaged them them next day, “only 498 questions to go.” We both had a laugh.

  8. Maeghen (verified owner)

    My wife and I have been doing questions when we go out on dates and it’s been such an eye opening experience! Not only are we talking about things we’ve never discussed, but the questions are also opening up new topics as well!

  9. Anastasia (verified owner)

    We just started and decided to walk slowly and deeply. When it was a question about a broken heart, we left the romantic topic altogether and ended up there, which we never discussed. After this revelation, we are both so tender to each other. And he thanked me for my tears. And I saw the reason of his emotions sometimes. Elena, you are amazing brilliant, thank you so much!

  10. Katie Lodge

    This guide should be given to every couple. The tips are great nuggets of wisdom which just make sense and the questions are important for any relationship. Answering them to myself has been inspiring and has come at a good time for my relationship. Thank you Elena x

  11. Deepa

    I’ve been with my husband for 17 years, but reading this guide made me realize we still have so many things yet to discover about ourselves each other. And that’s exciting!! Elena’s questions are well thought out and varied, enabling you to have conversations that can run from playful and steamy to thoughtful and searching. Can’t recommend this highly enough.

  12. Dajana (verified owner)

    This is not your conventional pair of questions. I did it by myself and it pushes me to dive deeper and really think about my needs.
    Love it !!

  13. Lesya

    It’s not just a guide it’s a whole jorney which you are able to experience within yourself and obviously share it with the one you want to be connected authentically. Happy to take my time and pleasure to Open Wide.
    Great piece of work and encouragement .
    Thank you Elena ❤️

  14. Janet

    Great guide! Started the questions with my partner few days ago and it already is thought us a lot! Highly recommended 🙂

  15. Rachel (verified owner)

    Elena only delivers the most exquisite products to her kittens and this one does not disappoint. Can not wait to dive in to these with my lover. ❤️

  16. Nataliya (verified owner)

    The guide completely over-delivered vs. my expectations. Expected to get a list of questions, and received a full book! It’s beautifully designed and the questions are definitely worth pondering. Thank you Elena, for this wonderful offering!

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