48 REASONS WHY WOMEN CAN’T ORGASM DURING SEX

Women across the world are starving for sensual and sexual pleasure.

Even when having sex frequently, women find themselves unsatisfied in their sexual relationships. There is an abundance of sex toys, sexuality books and availability of sexual partners. Unfortunately, most women’s sex lives are their greatest source of disappointment.

The sad reality is that most people are having mediocre, conventional sex. Even consistent orgasms, whether solo or with a partner, do not guarantee long-term sexual satisfaction in relationships.

Conventional sex = crappy sex. Conventional sex is ego-based. It is about numbers, intensity, achievement, performance and looks. It is no wonder that women are having a hard time orgasming. It is simply not worth your time, your effort or your energy.

Conventional sex = crappy sex. Conventional sex is ego-based. It is about numbers, intensity, achievement, performance and looks. It is no wonder that women are having a hard time orgasming. It is simply not worth your time, your effort or your energy.

Concentrated on the most efficient and fastest orgasmic release, both partners work hard to reach an orgasm and complete sex “successfully”. The ability to make your partner orgasm is considered the ultimate proof of adequacy as a great lover.

The tragedy of modern love-making

The tragedy of modern love-making is its blind obsession with genital stimulation and orgasm. The irony is that this obsession is what keeps women from relaxing into pleasure during sex. Unaware of their pleasure potential, women begin to feel ashamed, assuming something is wrong with them rather than with the sex they are having.

At the beginning of any sexual relationship, novelty takes over the pleasure experience. Novelty fuels initial sexual excitement and satisfaction. However, once the newness fizzles out, boredom and lack of desire begin to appear.

We are living in a culture of severely under-fucked and unloved women. Women living without the ambiance of sensual love wilt and dry up like flowers, often experiencing depression, despair and stress.

49 Reasons WHY You’re Not Having Orgasms with Sex

If you are having a hard time experiencing pleasure and orgasms during sex, it could be due to the following reasons:

1. You are having sex with someone you do not actually like or truly attracted to. There is no real interest nor passion towards your partner. There is a chance they are a complete stranger. There is lack of trust, vulnerability or intimacy. Your heart is closed out of protection.
2. The kind of sex you are having is not in alignment with your true desires (ex. having rough sex while yearning for sensual love-making). You are doing what you think is considered good/trendy/cool sex.
3. You are trying to impress your partner during sex instead of enjoying yourself and your body. Your full concentration is on them.
4. You’ve heard that many women struggle to orgasm during sex so you assume that its a normal thing that you do not either.
5. You do not really know what or how you like to receive pleasure. You are impatiently waiting for your lover to figure it out for you.
6. You judge the quality of sex-based on whether you orgasm. The main goal is to orgasm as fast as possible in order to appear adequate and low-maintenance as a lover. Your inability to orgasm leads to feelings of failure.

Conventional sex is fast-food sex. It fills up short-term cravings yet leaves you starving in the long run. Conventional sex is not a sustainable form of love-making and is one of the main reasons why couples eventually stop having sex. It is especially damaging to the female body and sexual psyche.
Lack of knowledge of how the female body operates, lack of emotional connection and excessive stimulation of the genitals leaves a woman feeling used and unloved. The body begins to loose its capacity to feel. Eventually, women require harder, faster and more intense stimulation like vibrators in order to feel pleasure.

The idea that women do not desire sex as much as men do is a sad myth. Women simply aren’t having the amazing sex worth craving. When a woman is being made love to the way her body and heart have been designed for, she blossoms as a highly aroused orgasmic woman.

It is time to step out of conventional sex into the world of conscious pleasurable sex!

Who is with me???

Gifts for You:

• Online course with video tutorials, teaching how to touch a woman’s body with ORGASMIC PLEASURE.
• Read Diana Richardson’s “Tantric Orgasm for Women” to understand more about the female libido and body.
• Book a skype consultation with me to learn how to open and fuel your libido within relationships.

Love you, kittens!