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Nothing kills the mood more than wobbling half naked to the other room looking for a condom or a towel. Keeping all your sex essentials on hand, within easy reach, enables us to fully let go and relax knowing that no matter what happens, we’ve got the tools to support ourselves and amplify our sexy experience whether solo or with a partner.
Enter, the pleasure chest - a collection of your sexy essentials.What are they?
Tension in the body is a coping mechanism against physical and emotional stress. We all know common stress symptoms like headaches, inflammation, insomnia or back pain.
Did you know that a woman’s pussy, or yoni, also experiences stress? Yoni stress arises from unwanted sex, conventional sex lacking in pleasure, rough penetration, chronic infections, childbirth and sexual trauma.
For some women, intercourse is uncomfortable or even painful. Often after sexual penetration a woman’s vagina feels swollen and sore. While there are numerous reasons why women experience sexual vaginal pain, a common issue is diagnosed as vaginismus.
As a sexuality coach, I talk with hundreds of women each year about their sexual struggles, desire and habits. Many come to me having wasted their time and money on services and products which reaped little improvement to their sex lives or their sexual self-esteem.
I invite my female clients to be smarter with their finances and invest in products/services which bring positive change to their love life. We can spend years investing in new sex toys, pussy creams and sexy lingerie only to be disappointed in our sexual relationships over and over again.
Sexual trauma has many faces ranging from inability to orgasm, mistrust for the sexual partners, or severe emotional stress. It can show up as physiological ailments or express itself as subtle emotional stress. Trauma can develop from something as muted as a sexless but loving marriage to physically/emotionally abuse events.
Menstrual sponges are the latest hot trend spreading across the internet. They are being sold for insane prices online in the name of “natural and eco menstruation” worldwide. Here is a fun fact - sea sponges may look like seaweed but are officially classified as sea ANIMALS!
One of the main reasons why people struggle in their sex life is because they do not know who they truly are or what turns them on. You are not alone. Clients come to me believing they are broken, without ever having experienced pleasure or orgasm, never having been sexually turned on or satisfied. Others live their entire lives in secrecy, deeply ashamed of their sexuality, leading hidden sex lives online or outside their relationship.