The Yoni Empire Blog
Must-have Sex Essentials by Your Bedside
Nothing kills the mood more than wobbling half naked to the other room looking for a condom or a towel. Keeping all your sex essentials on hand, within easy reach, enables us to fully let go and relax knowing that no matter what happens, we’ve got the tools to support ourselves and amplify our sexy experience whether solo or with a partner.
Enter, the pleasure chest - a collection of your sexy essentials.What are they?
WHAT IS A HEALING YONI MASSAGE?
Tension in the body is a coping mechanism against physical and emotional stress. We all know common stress symptoms like headaches, inflammation, insomnia or back pain.
Did you know that a woman’s pussy, or yoni, also experiences stress? Yoni stress arises from unwanted sex, conventional sex lacking in pleasure, rough penetration, chronic infections, childbirth and sexual trauma.
SECRET TO LONG-TERM SEXUAL DESIRE
This is an excerpt of my interview with Onna Lifestyle pleasure brand where I shared the secret to long-term sexual desire within committed relationships. We spoke in detail about why sexual desire seems to fade with time and what we can do about it.
5 BOOKS TO UNDERSTAND VAGINAL PAIN (VAGINISMUS)
For some women, intercourse is uncomfortable or even painful. Often after sexual penetration a woman’s vagina feels swollen and sore. While there are numerous reasons why women experience sexual vaginal pain, a common issue is diagnosed as vaginismus.
Word-gasmic Novels for your Reading Pleasure
Being an absolute bookworm, I have hundreds of books which I've enjoyed over the years. The following five hold a special place in my heart. These novels have kept me up till 2-3am as I was unable to put them down.
7 SEX & LOVE BOOKS FOR MEN
I love reading books written for men. They give me a fantastic insight into the world of male sexuality. These are the works I recommend to all my guy friends and male acquaintances whether they would like to self develop or improve their romantic relationships.
8 BEST INVESTMENTS FOR EPIC SEX
As a sexuality coach, I talk with hundreds of women each year about their sexual struggles, desire and habits. Many come to me having wasted their time and money on services and products which reaped little improvement to their sex lives or their sexual self-esteem.
I invite my female clients to be smarter with their finances and invest in products/services which bring positive change to their love life. We can spend years investing in new sex toys, pussy creams and sexy lingerie only to be disappointed in our sexual relationships over and over again.
8 SEX & LOVE BOOKS FOR COUPLES
Below is a list of my favourite relationship books which cover topics of long-term sexual desire, sustaining passion, dealing with infidelity and understanding how we love and connect with others.
WHAT IS SEXUAL TRAUMA & DO I HAVE IT?
Sexual trauma has many faces ranging from inability to orgasm, mistrust for the sexual partners, or severe emotional stress. It can show up as physiological ailments or express itself as subtle emotional stress. Trauma can develop from something as muted as a sexless but loving marriage to physically/emotionally abuse events.
4 PODCAST EPISODES TO OPEN YOUR HEART
I’d like to share with you four podcast episodes which I often share with my friends and which have fundamentally enriched and inspired my life’s positive changes and had me tap deeper into my heart.
HOW TO SEE YOUR G-SPOT IN 5 MINUTES!
Did you know that you can actually SEE your G-spot?!!?! G-spot is a vital part of the female sex organs and every female is born with one. The G- spot area is capable of triggering deep and profound pleasure sensations and orgasms. It is also responsible for female...
VIBRATORS ARE LIKE CROISSANTS
For many women, orgasming with vibrators is much easier than doing it with hands or with a lover. Some models are so powerful that you can orgasm within seconds. Vibrators seem to be the perfect pleasure tool.
But are they really?
PLEASE STOP WEARING DEAD SEA ANIMALS INSIDE YOUR VAGINAS!
Menstrual sponges are the latest hot trend spreading across the internet. They are being sold for insane prices online in the name of “natural and eco menstruation” worldwide. Here is a fun fact - sea sponges may look like seaweed but are officially classified as sea ANIMALS!
WHEN SHOULD I WORK WITH A SEX COACH?
One of the main reasons why people struggle in their sex life is because they do not know who they truly are or what turns them on. You are not alone. Clients come to me believing they are broken, without ever having experienced pleasure or orgasm, never having been sexually turned on or satisfied. Others live their entire lives in secrecy, deeply ashamed of their sexuality, leading hidden sex lives online or outside their relationship.
HOW TO PICK A YONI MASSAGE SPECIALIST
Yoni Massage or “ Tantric pelvic release massage” is a whole body experience that includes touching and massaging the whole body, primarily focusing on buttocks, breasts, hips, outside and inside of the yoni. There are many healing benefits to such bodywork.
11 SEX QUESTIONS TO ASK EACH OTHER
I've created a GUIDE with 500 QUESTIONS FOR LOVERS to ask each other. These questions are meant to gift you self introspection as well as knowledge about each other. The goal of these questions is to have an HONEST conversation about your sexuality and the things...
10 BOOKS FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL SELF-DEVELOPMENT
Below is a list of my favourite books for women to tap into their pleasure potential, heal trauma and expand their sexuality.
33 REASONS WHY WOMEN CAN’T ORGASM DURING SEX
The sad reality is that most people are having mediocre, conventional sex. Even consistent orgasms, whether solo or with a partner, do not guarantee long-term sexual satisfaction in relationships. Conventional sex = crappy sex. Conventional sex is ego-based. It is...
WHY DOES MY PUSSY HURT DURING SEX?
Sometimes, sex hurts.
For some women, intercourse is uncomfortable or painful and afterwards their vagina feels swollen and/or sore. There are a number of reasons why women might be experiencing pain or soreness after sex.
WHAT IS YONI MAPPING & HOW TO DO IT
Did you know that you can maximise your pleasure experiences by mapping your vagina? What is Yoni Mapping? Yoni Mapping is a mindful internal vaginal massage. It is a compass to MORE PLEASURE! It takes less than an hour to map your yoni! Mapping your vagina brings...
BENEFITS OF YONI MASSAGE
Unfortunately, most women are having the type of sex which destroys female pleasure and gradually dampens their libido. During unsatisfactory sex, vaginas experience discomfort, stagnation and sexual stress. The body tenses up as a coping mechanism against...
PLEASURE TRAVEL GUIDE: BALI
There are 100’s of cool places and pleasures to experience yet the following 15 are just that special to me. I hope you enjoy them as much as I do. They all hold a special meaning in my heart. Quince Cafe & Concept Store Location: Canggu @quince_bali...
BEST SEX TOYS FOR G-SPOT PLEASURE
Every cell in our body is orgasmic. Clitoral orgasms are just the tip of the iceberg. ALL women are capable of many types of orgasms! All females are born with G-spot! It is a vital part of the female sexual organs.
ANAL SEX 101: USEFUL TIPS FOR BEGINNERS
Many women are terrified of anal sex for two reasons – embarrassment of poop and painful discomfort from penetration. Both can be easily solved. Most people don’t know how to have anal sex so they copy what they see in porn movies which is usually some form of...